Thursday, June 12, 2014

The Wisdom of L.M. Montgomery's Anne

Goodness it's been a long time since I posted! My friend Allison posted some quotes from Anne of Green Gables and suddenly I was swept into a wonderful pool of delicious quotations. While my blog name--The Tomorrow Road--is the imagining of another Montgomery heroine, Emily, it still seems appropriate to share some of the wise beyond her years words of Anne-with-an-E Shirley (and possibly some of Marilla's and the indomitable Mrs. Rachel Lynde. So brew a cup of tea and enjoy!


On life

“It's been my experience that you can nearly always enjoy things if you make up your mind firmly that you will.”

“Life is worth living as long as there's a laugh in it.”

“Tomorrow is a new day with no mistakes in it... Yet.”

“My life is a perfect graveyard of buried hopes.” I hope not, but oh the poetry of the thought!

“It's not what the world holds for you. It's what you bring to it.”

“It's all very well to read about sorrows and imagine yourself living through them heroically, but it's not so nice when you really come to have them, is it?”

“When I left Queen's my future seemed to stretch out before me like a straight road. I thought I could see along it for many a milestone. Now there is a bend in it. I don't know what lies around the bend, but I'm going to believe that the best does.”

“That's the worst of growing up, and I'm beginning to realize it. The things you wanted so much when you were a child don't seem half so wonderful to you when you get them.”

“Anne always remembered the silvery, peaceful beauty and fragrant calm of that night. It was the last night before sorrow touched her life; and no life is ever quite the same again when once that cold, sanctifying touch has been laid upon it.”

“...“Oh, Marilla, looking forward to things is half the pleasure of them,” exclaimed Anne. “You mayn’t get the things themselves; but nothing can prevent you from having the fun of looking forward to them. Mrs. Lynde says, ‘Blessed are they who expect nothing for they shall not be disappointed.’ But I think it would be worse to expect nothing than to be disappointed.”


On names

“There's such a lot of different Annes in me. I sometimes think that is why I'm such a troublesome person. If I was just the one Anne it would be ever so much more comfortable, but then it wouldn't be half so interesting.”

“I read in a book once that a rose by any other name would smell as sweet, but I've never been able to believe it. I don't believe a rose WOULD be as nice if it was called a thistle or a skunk cabbage.”

“Oh, it makes SUCH a difference. It LOOKS so much nicer. When you hear a name pronounced can't you always see it in your mind, just as if it was printed out? I can; and A-n-n looks dreadful, but A-n-n-e looks so much more distinguished. If you'll only call me Anne spelled with an E I shall try to reconcile myself to not being called Cordelia.”

On words & education

“People laugh at me because I use big words. But if you have big ideas, you have to use big words to express them, haven't you?”

“Oh, it's delightful to have ambitions. I'm so glad I have such a lot. And there never seems to be any end to them-- that's the best of it. Just as soon as you attain to one ambition you see another one glittering higher up still. It does make life so interesting.”

“Isn't it splendid to think of all the things there are to find out about? It just makes me feel glad to be alive--it's such an interesting world. It wouldn't be half so interesting if we know all about everything, would it? There'd be no scope for imagination then, would there?But am I talking too much? People are always telling me I do. Would you rather I didn't talk? If you say so I'll stop. I can STOP when I make up my mind to it, although it's difficult.”

“It must be lovely to be grown up, Marilla, when just being treated as if you were is so nice...Well, anyway, when I grow up, I'm always going to talk to little girls as if they were, too, and I'll never laugh when they use big words.”

“The world calls them its singers and poets and artists and story-tellers; but they are just people who have never forgotten the way to fairyland."

On money

“Look at that sea, girls--all silver and shadow and vision of things not seen. We couldn't enjoy its loveliness any more if we had millions of dollars and ropes of diamonds.”


On God

“Why must people kneel down to pray? If I really wanted to pray I’ll tell you what I'd do. I'd go out into a great big field all alone or in the deep, deep woods and I'd look up into the sky—up—up—up—into that lovely blue sky that looks as if there was no end to its blueness. And then I'd just feel a prayer.”

“The world looks like something God had just imagined for His own pleasure. This isn't poetry but it makes me feel the same way as poetry does.”

On friendship

"Kindred spirits are not so scarce as I used to think. It's splendid to find out there are so many of them in the world.”


On fashion

“It is ever so much easier to be good if your clothes are fashionable.”

“All i want is a dress with puffed sleeves.”

"Anne took the dress and looked at it in reverent silence. Oh, how pretty it was--a lovely soft brown gloria with all the gloss of silk; a skirt with dainty frills and shirrings; a waist elaborately pintucked in the most fashinable way, with a little ruffle of filmy lace at the neck. But the sleeves--they were the crowning glory! Long elbow cuffs, and above them two beautiful puffs divided by rows of shirring and bows of brown-silk ribbon.”

On nature

“It was November--the month of crimson sunsets, parting birds, deep, sad hymns of the sea, passionate wind-songs in the pines. Anne roamed through the pineland alleys in the park and, as she said, let that great sweeping wind blow the fogs out of her soul.”

“It has always seemed to me. ever since early childhood, amid all the commonplaces of life, i was very near to a kingdom of ideal beauty. Between it and me hung only a thin veil. I could never draw it quite aside, but sometimes a wind fluttered it and I caught a glimpse of the enchanting realms beyond-only a glimpse-but those glimpses have always made life worthwhile.”

“Anne came dancing home in the purple winter twilight across the snowy places.”

On looks

“Red hair is my life long sorrow.”

“Which would you rather be if you had the choice--divinely beautiful or dazzlingly clever or angelically good?”


On looking on the bright side

“Oh, I know I'm a great trial to you, Marilla," said Anne repentantly. "I make so many mistakes. But then just think of all the mistakes I don't make, although I might.”

“Oh, don't you see? There must be a limit to the mistakes one person can make, and when I get to the end of them, then I'll be through with them. That's a very comforting thought.”

“Don't be very frightened, Marilla. I was walking the ridge-pole and I fell off. I suspect I have sprained my ankle. But, Marilla, I might have broken my neck. Let us look on the bright side of things.”

"Anne sighed. 'I can't. I'm in the depths of despair. Can you eat when you are in the depths of despair?'
'I've never been in the depths of despair, so I can't say,' responded Marilla.
'Weren't you? Well, did you ever try to IMAGINE you were in the depths of despair?'
'No, I didn't.'
'Then I don't think you can understand what it's like. It's very uncomfortable a feeling indeed.'”


On boys

“Ruby Gillis thinks of nothing but young men, and the older she gets the worse she is. Young men are all very well in their place, but it doesn't do to drag them into everything, does it?”

"'I love Diana so, Marilla. I cannot ever live without her. But I know very well when we grow up that Diana will get married and go away and leave me. And oh, what shall I do? I hate her husband — I just hate him furiously. I've been imagining it all out — the wedding and everything — Diana dressed in snowy white garments, and a veil, and looking as beautiful and regal as a queen; and me the bridesmaid, with a lovely dress, too, and puffed sleeves, but with a breaking heart hid beneath my smiling face. And then bidding Diana good-bye-e-e—' Here Anne broke down entirely and wept with increasing bitterness. Marilla turned quickly away to hide her twitching face, but it was no use; she collapsed on the nearest chair and burst into such a hearty and unusual peal of laughter…”

“Gilbert took from his desk a little pink candy heart with a gold motto on it, “You are sweet,” and slipped it under the curve of Anne’s arm. Whereupon Anne arose, took the pink heart gingerly between the tips of her fingers, dropped it on the floor, ground it to powder beneath her heel, and resumed her position without deigning to bestow a glance on Gilbert.”

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“I suppose it was a romantic way to perish... for a mouse.”

“Anne, are you killed?' shrieked Diana, throwing herself on her knees beside her friend. 'Oh, Anne, dear Anne, speak just one word to me and tell me if you're killed.”

“I am well in body although considerably rumpled up in spirit, thank you, ma'am,' said Anne gravely. Then aside to Marilla in an audible whisper, 'There wasn't anything startling in that, was there, Marilla?”

“Don't be very frightened, Marilla. I was walking the ridge-pole and I fell off. I suspect I have sprained my ankle. But, Marilla, I might have broken my neck. Let us look on the bright side of things.”


https://www.goodreads.com/work/quotes/3464264-anne-of-green-gables-anne-of-green-gables-1

Friday, January 17, 2014



I need Thee every hour, most gracious Lord;
No tender voice like Thine can peace afford.

I need Thee, O I need Thee;
Every hour I need Thee;
O bless me now, my Savior,
I come to Thee.

I need Thee every hour, stay Thou nearby;
Temptations lose their power when Thou art nigh.

I need Thee, O I need Thee;
Every hour I need Thee;
O bless me now, my Savior,
I come to Thee.

I need Thee every hour, in joy or pain;
Come quickly and abide, or life is in vain.

I need Thee, O I need Thee;
Every hour I need Thee;
O bless me now, my Savior,
I come to Thee.

I need Thee every hour; teach me Thy will;
And Thy rich promises in me fulfill.

I need Thee, O I need Thee;
Every hour I need Thee;
O bless me now, my Savior,
I come to Thee.

I need Thee every hour, most Holy One;
O make me Thine indeed, Thou blessèd Son.

I need Thee, O I need Thee;
Every hour I need Thee;
O bless me now, my Savior,
I come to Thee.

Annie S. Hawks, 1872

Annie Hawks wrote:

One day as a young wife and mo­ther of 37 years of age, I was bu­sy with my reg­u­lar house­hold tasks. Sud­den­ly, I be­came so filled with the sense of near­ness to the Mast­er that, won­der­ing how one could live with­out Him, ei­ther in joy or pain, these words, “I Need Thee Ev­e­ry Hour,” were ush­ered in­to my mind, the thought at once tak­ing full pos­sess­ion of me.

After writ­ing the lyr­ics, Hawks gave them to her pas­tor, Ro­bert Low­ry, who add­ed the tune and re­frain. The hymn was first pub­lished at the Na­tion­al Bap­tist Sun­day School Con­ven­tion in Cin­cin­na­ti, Ohio, in No­vem­ber 1872. Some years lat­er, af­ter the death of her hus­band, Hawks wrote:

I did not un­der­stand at first why this hymn had touched the great throb­bing heart of hu­man­i­ty. It was not un­til long af­ter, when the sha­dow fell over my way, the sha­dow of a great loss, that I un­der­stood some­thing of the com­fort­ing pow­er in the words which I had been per­mit­ted to give out to others in my hour of sweet se­ren­i­ty and peace.

May these words touch your heart today as they touched mine.

Friday, January 3, 2014

The Professor


Today, January 3rd, is J.R.R Tolkien's 122nd birthday. He is remembered primarily for his Legendarium and, like C.S/ Lewis, the wise and witty quotations people have taken from his work over the years. For those who don't know, Legendarium is in fact a word. It is used primarily to identify Tolkien's work concerning Middle Earth, even the books and writings that are not considered "canon" (meaning some of the stories he wrote contradict the events of other stories because it was all a work in progress up until the day he died. His son, Christopher, has had the difficult job of deciding what to publish as "canon" (The Silmarillion) and what to publish (or not publish) as additional works (The Book of Lost Tales, for example).
You can read more about that here: http://tolkiengateway.net/wiki/Legendarium

In November I posted a list of 50 C.S. Lewis quotes in honor of the 50th anniversary of Jack's death. (He would have been 116 on Nov 29th. He died in 1963 a week before his 65th birthday.) Professor Tolkien died in September 1973 (age 81), so the 40th anniversary of his death was 4 months ago. It can get confusing celebrating one man on the day of his death and another on the day his life began, but bear with me. The purpose of this post is to highlight the things Tolkien wrote that are still so relevant today, and personal favorites, not necessarily a certain number. There are, of course, many many more I haven't included. I hope you enjoy it, add your own favorites in the comments, and raise a glass today in honor of "The Professor".


“All that is gold does not glitter,
Not all those who wander are lost;
The old that is strong does not wither,
Deep roots are not reached by the frost.

From the ashes a fire shall be woken,
A light from the shadows shall spring;
Renewed shall be blade that was broken,
The crownless again shall be king.”
―The Fellowship of the Ring

“I wish it need not have happened in my time," said Frodo.
"So do I," said Gandalf, "and so do all who live to see such times. But that is not for them to decide. All we have to decide is what to do with the time that is given us.”
―The Fellowship of the Ring

“Never laugh at live dragons.” --The Hobbit

“Faithless is he that says farewell when the road darkens.”
―The Fellowship of the Ring

Many that live deserve death. And some that die deserve life. Can you give it to them? Then do not be too eager to deal out death in judgement. For even the very wise cannot see all ends.”
― The Fellowship of the Ring

“The world is indeed full of peril and in it there are many dark places.
But still there is much that is fair. And though in all lands, love is now
mingled with grief, it still grows, perhaps, the greater.”
― The Lord of the Rings

“If more of us valued food and cheer and song above hoarded gold, it would be a merrier world.” --The Hobbit

There is some good in this world, and it's worth fighting for.”
― The Two Towers

“I will not say, do not weep, for not all tears are an evil.” --The Return of the King

“War must be, while we defend our lives against a destroyer who would devour all; but I do not love the bright sword for its sharpness, nor the arrow for its swiftness, nor the warrior for his glory. I love only that which they defend.”
― The Two Towers


“The Road goes ever on and on
Down from the door where it began.
Now far ahead the Road has gone,
And I must follow, if I can,
Pursuing it with eager feet,
Until it joins some larger way
Where many paths and errands meet.
And whither then? I cannot say”
―The Fellowship of the Ring

“It's a dangerous business, Frodo, going out your door. You step onto the road, and if you don't keep your feet, there's no knowing where you might be swept off to.”
― Fellowship of the Ring


“Fantasy is escapist, and that is its glory. If a soldier is imprisioned by the enemy, don't we consider it his duty to escape?. . .If we value the freedom of mind and soul, if we're partisans of liberty, then it's our plain duty to escape, and to take as many people with us as we can!”
― J.R.R. Tolkien

“Little by little, one travels far”
― J.R.R. Tolkien


“Do you wish me a good morning, or mean that it is a good morning whether I want it or not; or that you feel good this morning; or that it is a morning to be good on?”
― The Hobbit

It's the job that's never started as takes longest to finish.”
― The Lord of the Rings

“For like a shaft, clear and cold, the thought pierced him that in the end the Shadow was only a small and passing thing: there was light and high beauty for ever beyond its reach.”
― The Return of the King

“There is nothing like looking, if you want to find something. You certainly usually find something, if you look, but it is not always quite the something you were after.”
― The Hobbit

“A man that flies from his fear may find that he has only taken a short cut to meet it.”
― The Children of Húrin


“We have come from God, and inevitably the myths woven by us, though they contain error, will also reflect a splintered fragment of the true light, the eternal truth that is with God. Indeed only by myth-making, only by becoming 'sub-creator' and inventing stories, can Man aspire to the state of perfection that he knew before the Fall. Our myths may be misguided, but they steer however shakily towards the true harbour, while materialistic 'progress' leads only to a yawning abyss and the Iron Crown of the power of evil.”
― J.R.R. Tolkien

“It does not do to leave a live dragon out of your calculations, if you live near him.”
― The Hobbit

“The wide world is all about you: you can fence yourselves in, but you cannot for ever fence it out.”
― The Fellowship of the Ring

“He that breaks a thing to find out what it is has left the path of wisdom.”
― The Fellowship of the Ring

“It is not the strength of the body that counts, but the strength of the spirit.”
― J.R.R. Tolkien

“Fairy tale does not deny the existence of sorrow and failure: the possibility of these is necessary to the joy of deliverance. It denies (in the face of much evidence, if you will) universal final defeat...giving a fleeting glimpse of Joy; Joy beyond the walls of the world, poignant as grief.”
― J.R.R. Tolkien

“It is not our part to master all the tides of the world, but to do what is in us for the succour of those years wherein we are set, uprooting the evil in the fields that we know, so that those who live after may have clean earth to till. What weather they shall have is not ours to rule.”
― The Lord of the Rings

“Living by faith includes the call to something greater than cowardly self-preservation.”
― J.R.R. Tolkien

“Some who have read the book, or at any rate have reviewed it, have found it boring, absurd, or contemptible, and I have no cause to complain, since I have similar opinions of their works, or of the kinds of writing that they evidently prefer.”
― J.R.R. Tolkien

“But no living man am I! You look upon a woman. Éowyn I am, Éomund's daughter. You stand between me and my lord and kin. Begone, if you be not deathless! For living or dark undead, I will smite you, if you touch him.”
― The Return of the King

“The road must be trod, but it will be very hard. And neither strength nor wisdom will carry us far upon it. This quest may be attempted by the weak with as much hope as the strong. Yet it is oft the course of deeds that move the wheels of the world: Small hands do them because they must, while the eyes of the great are elsewhere.”
―The Fellowship of the Ring

“It's like in the great stories, Mr. Frodo. The ones that really mattered. Full of darkness and danger they were. And sometimes you didn't want to know the end… because how could the end be happy? How could the world go back to the way it was when so much bad had happened? But in the end, it’s only a passing thing… this shadow. Even darkness must pass.”
― The Two Towers

“In sorrow we must go, but not in despair. Behold! we are not bound for ever to the circles of the world, and beyond them is more than memory.”
― Lord of the Rings (Appendices)

“And the ship went out into the High Sea and passed into the West, until at last on a night of rain Frodo smelled a sweet fragrance on the air and heard the sound of singing that came over the water. And then it seemed to him that as in his dream in the house of Bombadil, the grey rain-curtain turned all to silver glass and was rolled back, and he beheld white shores and beyond them a far green country under a swift sunrise.”
― The Return of the King

Pippin's Song (written by Tolkien, music by Billy Boyd and Howard Shore, sung by Billy in LOTR: The Return of the King)
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WskRAEggqkQ

Misty Mountains (written by Tolkien, music by Howard Shore, sung by the dwarven company in The Hobbit: The Unexpected Journey)
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Pyy_FIYE7EE

Monday, November 18, 2013

A Tribute to Jack


There was a boy called Eustace Clarence Scrubb, and he almost deserved it.

A children's story that can only be enjoyed by children is not a good children's story in the slightest.

We all want progress, but if you're on the wrong road, progress means doing an about-turn and walking back to the right road; in that case, the man who turns back soonest is the most progressive.

One must keep on pointing out that Christianity is a statement which, if false, is of no importance, and, if true, of infinite importance. The one thing it cannot be is moderately important.

To love at all is to be vulnerable. Love anything and your heart will be wrung and possibly broken. If you want to make sure of keeping it intact you must give it to no one, not even an animal. Wrap it carefully round with hobbies and little luxuries; avoid all entanglements. Lock it up safe in the casket or coffin of your selfishness. But in that casket, safe, dark, motionless, airless, it will change. It will not be broken; it will become unbreakable, impenetrable, irredeemable. To love is to be vulnerable.

There are far, far better things ahead than any we leave behind.

I didn’t go to religion to make me happy. I always knew a bottle of Port would do that. If you want a religion to make you feel really comfortable, I certainly don’t recommend Christianity.

Since it is so likely that children will meet cruel enemies, let them at least have heard of brave knights and heroic courage.

There is but one good; that is God. Everything else is good when it looks to Him and bad when it turns from Him.

Each day we are becoming a creature of splendid glory or one of unthinkable horror.

The task of the modern educator is not to cut down jungles but to irrigate deserts.

The homemaker has the ultimate career. All other careers exist for one purpose only - and that is to support the ultimate career.

The future is something which everyone reaches at the rate of sixty minutes an hour, whatever he does, whoever he is.

There are only two kinds of people: those who say to God, "Thy will be done," and those to whom God says, "All right, then, have it your way."

Isn't it funny how day by day nothing changes, but when you look back, everything is different...

When we Christians behave badly, or fail to behave well, we are making Christianity unbelievable to the outside world.

Love is not affectionate feeling, but a steady wish for the loved person's ultimate good as far as it can be obtained.

We are mirrors whose brightness is wholly derived from the sun that shines upon us.

All get what they want; they do not always like it.

It is safe to tell the pure in heart that they shall see God, for only the pure in heart want to.

Being in love" first moved them to promise fidelity: this quieter love enables them to keep the promise.

Miracles are a retelling in small letters of the very same story which is written across the whole world in letters too large for some of us to see.

This was the very reason why you were brought to Narnia, that by knowing me here for a little, you may know me better there.

God cannot give us a happiness and peace apart from Himself, because it is not there. There is no such thing.

What you see and what you hear depends a great deal on where you are standing. It also depends on what sort of person you are.

A man can no more diminish God's glory by refusing to worship Him than a lunatic can put out the sun by scribbling the word 'darkness' on the walls of his cell.

Friendship is born at that moment when one person says to another: "What! You too? I thought I was the only one.”

God whispers to us in our pleasures, speaks to us in our conscience, but shouts in our pains; it is his megaphone to rouse a deaf world.

When Christ died, he died for you individually just as much as if you had been the only person in the world.

If God forgives us we must forgive ourselves otherwise its like setting up ourselves as a higher tribunal than Him.

All these toys were never intended to possess my heart. My true good is in another world, and my only real treasure is Christ.

Of all the bad men, religious bad men are the worst.

Someday you will be old enough to start reading fairy tales again.

If you're thinking of becoming a Christian, I warn you, you're embarking on something, which will take the whole of you.

Now is our chance to choose the right side. God is holding back to give us that chance. It won't last forever. We must take it or leave it.

Aim at heaven and you will get earth thrown in. Aim at earth and you get neither.

Free will, though it makes evil possible, is also the only thing that makes possible any love or goodness or joy worth having.

When you are arguing against God you are arguing against the very power that makes you able to argue at all.

There would be no sense in saying you trusted Jesus if you would not take his advice.

God intends to give us what we need, not what we now think we want.

Human history is the long terrible story of man trying to find something other than God which will make him happy.

Pride gets no pleasure out of having something, only out of having more of it than the next man.

Do not waste time bothering whether you 'love' your neighbor; act as if you do, and you will presently come to love him.

Humility is not thinking less of yourself, but thinking of yourself less.

To be a Christian means to forgive the inexcusable, because God has forgiven the inexcusable in you.

The Son of God became a man to enable men to become sons of God.

I believe in Christianity as I believe that the sun has risen — not only because I see it, but because by it I see everything else.

You can never get a cup of tea large enough or a book long enough to suit me.

If I find in myself desires which nothing in this world can satisfy, the only logical explanation is that I was made for another world.

All their life in this world and all their adventures in Narnia had only been the cover and the title page: now at last they were beginning Chapter One of the Great Story which no one on earth has read: which goes on for ever: in which every chapter is better than the one before.

Friday, November 15, 2013

Change


The Facebook posts of all the things I don't know about my friends are floating around again. I really have no desire to do it myself...I always have a hard time thinking of things my friends don't know. But it did make me think of how I've changed in the last 10 years.

There's no real reason for picking 10. It just seems the most practical, and most of the changes happened within that time frame. So without further ado, 10 differences between Kristin Age 18 and Kristin Age 28.


10. Kristin 18 tried to read The Lord of the Rings for the first time. She managed to read the beginning and end of Fellowship and Two Towers, then succeeded at reading the entire Return of the King in 24 hours. The Return of the King movie also came out the year she was 18. Kristin 28 has read almost every single book by JRR Tolkien and is considered an expert on all things Elvish by her husband and brother-in-law.

9. Kristin 18 started her freshman year at JMU believing she'd graduate, find a teaching job she loved, and teach for decades. Kristin 28 is glad she got her degree, but even more glad to not be using it (except with her own 3 year old).

8. Kristin 18 watched the original Star Wars trilogy with her brother. She enjoyed it, but didn't consider herself a fan of Sci-Fi. Kristin 28 can quote Star Wars, Firefly, and Doctor Who. She's also read a good number of Expanded Universe Star Wars books, has a daughter named Mara Jade, and considers River to be the best name for a girl super-hero. She also plans on taking lessons in swordsmanship.


7. Kristin 18 could barely boil water. Kristin 28 bakes for fun, plans meals a week in advance, uses a bread machine, and is much more adventurous with food.

6. Kristin 18 didn't really watch TV, other than Jeopardy in the evenings (which she was and is quite good at). Kristin 28's favorite (non-sci-fi/fantasy) TV show is FRIENDS. She has seen every single episode, many of them twice. She recently discovered How I Met Your Mother, which intrigues her because it reminds her of FRIENDS.


5. Kristin 18 knew practically nothing about Great Britain, and didn't care much that she didn't. Kristin 28 follows blogs on royal jewels, fashion, hats, and the Duchess of Cambridge. She knows the family tree of the British royals back to the reign of Queen Anne, and probably a bit further though the Stuarts aren't her strong point. She thinks British television is superior to American television (Downton Abbey, Sherlock, and Doctor Who!) and would happily move across the pond if they weren't so socialist.



4. Kristin 18 did not under any circumstances speak in public. Kristin 28 speaks up if she has something to say and has spoken in front of a large crowd a few times, including her graduation from JMU.

3. Kristin 18 had a list of 40 things she wanted in a husband. Kristin 28 has a husband that checks 39 out of the 40 things on the list.

2. Kristin 18 thought video/computer games were stupid. Kristin 28 thinks that video/computer games, EXCEPT the ones based on Lord of the Rings and Star Wars, are stupid.

1. Kristin 18 cared far to much about what other people thought of her. Kristin 28 desires to please God and her husband. Everyone else liking her is just icing on the cake.


How have you changed in the last 10 years?

Friday, August 2, 2013

Majesty

God is not a man.

God is not a politician. He's not a democratically elected leader.

He is King. He is Lord. He is a Ruler.

Not by election, but by right. By preeminence. Because no one is greater. No one outranks God!

As Americans we don't have a very positive view of monarchy. We don't like foreign powers, or anyone really, telling us what to do. We don't want to fight other people's wars, though we often do because we like being in charge and in control. We view taxation as unfair when we don't feel we have representation in the political spectrum.

But the Church is not a democracy. The Church is a monarchy. (I'm choosing not to refer to it as a Theocracy because that is defined as
government by immediate divine guidance or by officials who are regarded as divinely guided
. A monarchy in comparison is
a state or nation in which the supreme power is actually or nominally lodged in a monarch
. In this case, actually lodged.) Only instead of being Lord of a region, or King of a country, an Empire, or a Commonwealth-Which-Used-to-Be-An-Empire, GOD is King of the UNIVERSE. Preeminent. Paramount. Supreme. Sovereign.

So what words are used to describe God, and what do they mean?

God: the supreme or ultimate Being, perfect in power, wisdom, and goodness.
King: one that holds a preeminent position; ruler for life.
Majesty: the greatness and dignity of a sovereign, supreme authority or power.
Lord: one having authority over others; ruler by right or preeminence to whom service and obedience are due.

Sovereign: one possessing and exercising supreme power and authority.
Supreme: highest in rank or authority.
Preeminence: paramount rank; superior


Meeting a Head of State is a matter of protocol.



As Americans, we are not obligated to bow to foreign Heads, but some of us could, out of respect or courtesy.

How do we approach the God of the Universe?

You might be saying, but God is also my Father! He wants us to be like little children...and children don't give a fig for protocol.

Unless you are converted and become as little children, you will by no means enter the kingdom of heaven. Therefore whoever humbles himself as this little child is the greatest in the kingdom of heaven.
Matthew 18:4-5

But wait, what is this child doing? Humbling himself?

Humble: not proud or haughty; not arrogant or assertive; reflecting, expressing, or offered in a spirit of deference or submission.
Deference: respect and esteem due to an elder or superior.

Do we approach God with humble hearts and deference? Or are we arrogant, making demands when things go wrong, and ignoring Him when things are going well? Remember, God is not a NOMINAL monarch, but an ACTUAL monarch. He's not a petite elderly 87 year old great-grandparent monarch. He's a WARRIOR-KING. Read the next verse in Matthew:

But whoever causes on of these little ones who believe in Me to sin, it would be better for him if a millstone were hung around his neck, and he were drowned in the depth of the sea.

He takes his position seriously. He takes his relationship with YOU seriously. Do you take HIM seriously?

Here's an example of what it looks like when God is not taken seriously:
http://www.dennyburk.com/presbyterian-church-u-s-a-rejects-popular-hymn-in-christ-alone-because-of-wrath/

The Presbyterian Church USA believes that God is Love, but does not want to recognize that God is also our Judge, that He can get angry, and that sin is disgusting to Him.
Nevermind that the lyric says the wrath of God was SATISFIED by Jesus' death on the cross. Some people in the American Church don't want a wrathful God. But as the author states,

Any formulation of deity that excludes God’s justice and wrath against sin is not the God of the Bible. A wrathless god shorn of His justice is no god worth worshipping. Nor is he a god able to convict and save sinners. When wrath is taken away, so is the gospel. And that is why this discussion matters.

I've discovered this week that while I know that God is the Creator of All, and I acknowledge Him as Lord & Savior, I really don't live like I truly fear God.

I'm not talking about frightened fear. That is the type Paul is referring to when he tells Timothy:

For God has not given us a spirit of fear, but of POWER and of LOVE and of a SOUND MIND.
2 Timothy 1:7

The fear of God is what leads to knowledge:
The fear of the Lord is the beginning of wisdom,and knowledge of the Holy One is understanding.
Proverbs 9:10

The man who fears God will be led in God’s ways. (Psalm 25:12-13)

In the fear of the Lord there is strong confidence.
Proverbs 14:26

Fearing God is respecting Him, giving Him the place of glory, honor, reverence, thanksgiving, praise and preeminence He deserves; esteeming Him and His desires over and above our own.
--John Bevere, Breaking Intimidation

The fear of the Lord is relating to God as Lord, King, and Sovereign. The fear of the Lord is giving Him the respect due Him because of His majesty and preeminence. It's taking Him seriously, believing He will do what He says. Recognizing and submitting to His authority. Learning to hear and obey His voice. Caring about His opinion over the opinion of friends, family, and people on the street.

You will not be afraid of man if you fear God! The fear of God swallows up all lesser fears.

The Lord is my Helper; I will not fear. What can man do to me?
Hebrews 13:6



Aslan a man! said Mr. Beaver sternly. Certainly not. I tell you he is the King of the wood and the son of the Emperor-beyond-the-Sea. Don't you know who is the King of Beasts? Aslan is a lion--THE Lion, the Great Lion.

Ooh! said Susan. I'd thought he was a man. Is he--quite safe? I shall feel rather nervous about meeting a lion.

That you will, dearie, and no mistake, said Mrs. Beaver; if there's anyone who can appear before Aslan without their knees knocking, they're either braver than most or else just silly.

Then he isn't safe? said Lucy.

Safe? said Mr. Beaver; don't you hear what Mrs. Beaver tells you? Who said anything about safe? 'Course he isn't safe! But he's good. He's the King, I tell you.

I'm longing to see him, said Peter, even if I do feel frightened when it comes to the point.

That's right, Son of Adam, said Mr. Beaver, ...and so you shall. Word has been sent that you are to meet him, tomorrow if you can, at the Stone Table.

What about poor Mr. Tumnus? said Lucy.

The quickest way you can help him is by going to meet Aslan, said Mr. Beaver, once he's with us, then we can begin DOING things.











Thursday, July 18, 2013

"Once We Watched the Lazy World Go By..."

...now the days seem to fly...(but) love goes on and on...
(Disney's Robin Hood)

On May 18, 2006 I was looking forward to a Tuesday night date with my boyfriend Jeremy. We had been dating for almost a year, though we'd known each other for almost 3.

I knew as soon as he walked through my door that this evening would be extra special. He was wearing one of my favorite shirts and he wouldn't tell me where we were going.

We stopped at Barnes & Noble and got chocolate cupcakes. He had IBC root beers in the truck. It had just rained and I could tell he was concerned about the ground being wet. He drove us to the park in Bridgewater and told me he'd go check to see if "our spot" by the river was too muddy. I pretended to be clueless, but I think he knew that I knew what was coming, though I had butterflies because I had no idea how he was going to do it!

Eventually he called my phone and told me he had saved our spot. I started down the long gravel path, trying to look calm and like nothing momentous was about to happen.

Several strategically placed roses with notes later, I found Jeremy with the last rose by the river.


3 days later I bought my dress.

A month later my parents sold our house and moved to VA Beach. My sister and I moved into a townhouse near campus.

5 months after that I started student teaching.

3 months after that I graduated.

And a month after that we got married.

We've been married 6 years with an eternity to go.


(The third picture was actually taken on that same path at the park, courtesy of my favorite photographer Bryan Myhr.)